I HOOKED UP WITH MY BEST FRIEND
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7 Reasons It's Actually Fine To Hook Up With A Guy Friend. You're already friends. Thinking of cashing in on some of those benefits? Tess Barker 07/09/ It happens to the best of us. You have a dude friend who you swear up and down is your “bro.” You look at him as a buddy, he looks at you as one of the guys. 28 Jul There is also the chance that you are such good friends that if the “friend with benefits situation” does not work out, you can bounce back easily into that oh As you know, so many things could go wrong when you hook up with your best friend, but do not forget that so many things can go so right (instead of. 5 Feb Once you've realized that you're physically attracted to your friend, there's always the question if you should actually hook up with him or not. And if you do hook up, then you have to deal . Whether the experience was good or bad, you have to talk the next day. “It's good to set expectations [the day after] so.
Your friend is awesome: Before the actual hook-up happens, there are a couple important things to consider. To help you decide if hooking up with your friend is the best idea or not, consider these pros and cons!
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Hooking up with a friend could confirm if you both actually want to become more than friendssomething that you may have only realized because click did hook up.
If you and your friend are in the same friend group, you might try to keep it a secret if it was a one-time deal and you want to move past it. Too bad word travels fast.
Hooking up is going to do this. If you would like to brave the cursed situation of hooking up with someone whose friendship you value, then read on to look at the bright side of hooking up with your best friend. Our relationship is full on and wholesome. As long as there is NO harm then why not?
Whether your friends are weird because the dynamic of your group changed or they just want to push your buttons, be prepared to get the side comment or blatant joke about it.
So much for keeping it on the DL. Clare says that despite hooking up with her close friend a few times, they were able to laugh it off because of their strong friendship. However, it could end up being totally awkward, even if you try to make it as non-awkward as possible.
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You could have to deal with anything from forced conversations to complete silence. Click was pretty devastating to me because I feel like he completely disregarded the fact that we were friends and that we could continue being friends without the weirdness.
Now we only argue when we talk.
The worst-case scenario is that a hook-up ends a friendship. We broke it off…and we drifted apart here. Ultimately, you do have some control of the outcome and how you handle it. Whether the aftermath is positive or negative, communication after hooking up with a friend is key.
Whether the experience was good or bad, you have to talk the next day. This means discussing if you want to tell your other friends, if it was a one-time thing or if you have feelings for each other.
Use the fact that you know each other well to navigate the aftermath as smoothly as possible. By weighing the pros and cons beforehand and knowing what to expect afterwards, you can successfully handle a friend hook-up, no matter how it turns out! Kasia pronounced "Kasha" recently graduated from Villanova University where she studied Communication.
She's a self-proclaimed Pinterest enthusiast, aspiring writer, avid reader, and constant smiler. Besides writing for HC, you can find her practicing yoga or curling up with a book at a coffee shop. She plans to pursue a career in public relations or journalism, where she can live in a city and decorate her own apartment.
ThePremium offers ad free access to all TheRichest content and so much more! There is a good chance that both of you will see the situation differently and laugh about how different you both interpreted click memorable night. Remember when Demi hooked up with Miley's brother? This loss is extremely hard and can come with a lot of heavy and built up feelings. Making love to your best friend is not something you can keep under wraps for ever.
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