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Should I Date Someone I'm Not Physically Attracted To?

If I’m not attracted… should I date him?

This is kind of rambling, so please bear with me. I'm engaged to a guy I am not physically attracted to. We've been together for over 4 years. I tried not to date him when we first met, but he was persistent and I was lonely. Actually I've never slept with anyone I'm physically attracted to. I'm just sort of blah. 18 Jul Q: Can people be physically incompatible, but still in love? I feel attracted to a man I've been seeing, but it's only in my mind. I'm not interested in the sex side of things and my body doesn't respond, yet my mind says “yes” to being attracted to him on every other level. What can we do? A: Of course people. 22 Oct If personality did not matter, everyone would want to be with someone attractive. Don't lie. Because if you are dating someone, not just sleeping with them for one night, chances are you might see them close to every day. I don't I never for a second wanted someone physically more than I wanted them.

First of all, chemistry is a misguided compass for whether something is good or bad for us.

Loss of Sexual Attraction

Which would you prefer, a green juice or Taco Bell [or fill in your favorite fast food]? More than likely, you would go for the fast food, right?? Every time you eat the tasty bite, you get instantly gratified, a sugar high, and that craving was fulfilled. Green juice is, well, necessary go here healthy. I believe in sexual chemistry, and attraction. But I wager that for many of us, chemistry is not a reliable test.

Here are some reasons:. You may be wired for attracting a similar relationship like theirs. Also, many women struggle with self-worth issues. Lastly, I want to bust the myth that people in relationships are sexually fulfilled and have loads of chemistry. Apparently, sexlessness in marriages on a rise.

First, take a deep breath. Your soulmate is on his way, I assure you. In fact, shift to gratitude whenever you start feeling low.

Love vs physical compatibility: 'I'm not sexually attracted to the man I love'

You can even be grateful for NOT being in a bad relationship. Practice a boat-load of Self Love.

You don't have to settle for not cringing. I had hoped attraction would grow but it didn't. Get updates Get updates.

How can you offer yourself love and care, as a friend or parent would? How can you create a loving environment for your mental, emotional, physical and spiritual well-being? The more connected you are with yourself, the more intimacy and connection you begin inviting into your life. You have to fill your own cup, and be your own best friend, beloved, soulmate. In my new online course Sacred Soulmate System, I share steps in how to practice mindfulness and Self Love in a sustainable way, which supports healthy love to begin flowing to you.

Do an assessment of your past relationships.

What was common in those men? What are you still hurting from? Also, look at your relationship with your parents. In what way could it have scarred you? Be a master of your own sexuality and femininity: How can I start feeling more connected to what gives me joy and pleasure? Start healing your sexuality and releasing sexual wounds. Practice offering your reproductive organs some love and spend time pleasuring yourself.

Learn embodiment practices like yoga and sexy dancing.

Dating Someone Not Sexually Attracted To

But I kept dating him because we shared values in honesty, meditation and serving our community. Start dating in a healthy, abundant, joyful way: Sometimes we start sabotaging a perfectly good relationship due to our own Inner Blocks. Work through your own sabotage patterns.

If I’m not attracted… should I date him? – Love Alchemy – Medium

This way, you stay honest, open to possibilities and loving. How one woman nearly missed out on Mr. Right, due to chemistry…. One of my clients, Fari, met an amazing man online. As a smart, beautiful entrepreneur, Fari could get ANY man she wanted.

Excuses only turn into huge problems later on. Attraction has to be there in the beginning and as you age you love their flaws. I had a friend in this situation.

But she kept meeting emotionally unavailable men. She continued dating for 6 months… and never gave up faith. She dated several men, and nothing seemed to pan out.

Dating Someone Not Sexually Attracted To

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