3 Signs He Loves You But Is Scared of Commitment
Relationship Dilemma: He Hasn't Said 'I Love You.' Should I Leave?
26 May A reader recently wrote in, because her boyfriend of 18 months has seemingly dodged one of those key relationship landmarks: “We haven't said 'I love you' to each other,” she says. “Or rather, I've said it a few times, and he has not been able to say the same. Any time I ask him why not, he says he's not. 18 Jul Dear Sybersue: My Boyfriend Has Not Told Me He Loves Me After 6 Months I feel like he is falling in love with me by certain things he does or says but I don't want to assume anything. I'm supposed to wait until he When two people really LOVE each other it is harder not to say “I Love you” than to say it. 14 Apr If you're not saying aloud (or at least to yourself) “I love you” to your mate in six months or less, hit the “next” button. me over this theory, citing that they, themselves, weren't able to say the three magic words for over a year, one simply because he'd recently gotten divorced and wanted to take his time.
The worst thing you can do is try to force him into committing. He gives me thoughtful presents. I would suggest taking a step back and thinking whether he shows you care and affection in another way first. If his ex-girlfriend cheated on him and betrayed his trust, it makes sense that he would be hesitant to open himself up to love once again. As soon as you can find out what stopped him from saying I love you in the past, the sooner you can tackle the problem and address it in the relationship you have with him today.
We have an amazing relationship and see each other at least 5 times a week. A friend told me that sometimes guys wait until they are with someone at least a year before saying anything.
There are so many factors that play a part in the answer to your question. It is what happens after that time frame that becomes the true test of a relationship. Saying that; I personally I think a source is much too long not to hear it if you are in a committed relationship.
I have always found it is best if the man leads with saying it first because so many guys get scared off by aggressive women who say it too quickly. When men finally say it after an extended period of time, they usually mean it. In answer to your question Niki, I would be patient a little while longer as he seems like a wonderful guy and is treating you well. After that if you are really concerned about where you stand with him, gently ask him a few questions about his past relationships.
If he is affectionate, holds your hand, compliments you often, puts you first and is proud to be with you, he is definitely on the path to saying it soon! What does your gut really say?
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Dating from a gentleman's point of view in Philadelphia. Stories from his life and those around him. Niki Dear Niki, There are so many factors that play a part in the answer to your question. Was he deeply hurt before? Has he ever been in love? He may have commitment issues or emotional demons. Was his childhood a happy place? Does he show love to other people in his life? Leave a Reply Cancel reply Enter your comment here Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Email Address never made public.
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